Mesajul unei mame pentru toti cei care judeca mamicile ce nasc prin cezariana a inchis gura multora

Olivia, mamica a doi copii, s-a saturat de toti cei care judeca mamele ce nasc prin cezariana, spunand ca opteaza pentru metoda mai usoara si ca asta n-ar fi de fapt nastere.

Nasterea prin cezariana nu-i cu nimic mai usoara

Asadar, dupa ce a nascut al doilea copil prin cezariana, a impartasit intr-o postare de Instagram un punct de vedere important, care ar trebui sa dea de gandit tuturor criticilor. In postare, a explicat decizia de a pune un selfie la cateva ore de la nastere, pentru ca toti cei ce o judeca „sa vada clar unde te taie pentru a scoate din tine o intreaga persoana.”
Apoi descrie in amanunt, intr-o maniera amuzanta, folosind multe caractere emonji, experienta resimtita. Din ceea ce povesteste, nu pare a fi cu nimic mai usor:

„Sigur, totul e roz si frumos, pana cand se duce anestezia”

„Pentru toti cei care cred ca asta e calea mai usoara, incercati si voi experienta unei taieturi de 15 cm in abdomen, precum un peste eviscerat si cusut inapoi, in timp ce simti cum parca organele interne incearca sa evadeze.
Adica da, sigur, totul e roz si frumos, pana cand anestezia se duce! Dupa aia e ca si cum ai fost lovita de un autobuz care, ca sa se asigure ca nu te-a ratat, a si dat cu spatele si a mai trecut peste tine o data.
Daca nu iei calmantele in timp util, exact inainte ca cele precedente sa-si piarda efectul, vei simti cu siguranta ca traiesti (si-ti vei dori sa nu fi fost asa).
Cel mai rau e ca te vei simti ca si cum vei purta mereu chiloti gogosar, care iti vin pana in talie, deoarece doar gandul ca vei purta haine care-ti vin pana in zona de sub buric este un cosmar.
Oricine a trecut prin cezariana stie ca vei fi mereu dependenta de colanti si dresuri, deoarece oricat ai vrea nu poti scapa de santul lasat de cicatrice.
Insa, nici macar pentru toate rochiile stramte, care imi veneau perfect inainte sa raman gravida, n-as schimba nimic din experientele prin care am trecut.
Pentru ca daca n-ar fi existat aceasta optiune de a naste, e posibil sa nu mai fi fost aici azi.”

Look I know it might not be my best angle (or is it?) but who wouldn’t take selfies hours post birth so they can see where they sliced you open and yanked out a whole person (if you couldn’t tell I still couldn’t see past my still inflated uterus) This is what you really look like a few hours post c-section To anyone who thinks it’s the easy way out, we’ll try having a 6 inch gash in your abdomen like a gutted shark who had the body parts of the surfer it ate retrieved! That’s then sewn back together with fishing wire while it feels like your vital organs are trying to escape! I mean sure, everything is and till the spinal wears off! After that it’s like you’ve been hit by a bus which then backed over you just to make sure it didn’t miss you the first time! If you don’t time the Endone exactly before the previous lot wore off then you will most certainly know you are alive (while wishing you were dead) ☠️ and worst of all you’ll feel as if you’ll spend your entire life wearing nanna knickers up around your waist because the thought of anything settling in the canyon between your gut and pubic region is the stuff nightmares are made of Anyone who’s ever had c section knows that you’ll forever be dependant on your friends Nancy, Dr 90210 and Spanx because you cannot for the life of you get rise of the ditch that is left by the scar But for all the skin tight Kookai dresses I bought while pregnant that now make me look like I have a Kangaroo pouch – I wouldn’t change it! Because if it wasn’t for the ability to deliver my babies this way they might not be here today plus I recon getting cut from A to B sounds way worse

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